To find out how to turn off your ad blocker, click here.
If this is your first time registering, check your inbox to learn more about the benefits of your Forbes account and what you can do next.
How do you maintain a positive attitude in life when your external forces continue to strike you over and over again?
Meet Danelle Delgado, author, life coach, business strater and CEO of Life Intended, a faithful person to help marketing specialists and CEO grow their business and more, while doing good with others.
When it comes to overcoming non-easy conditions through the force of positivity, Delgado wrote the bok… literally! His books, “I Choose Joy” and the upcoming “The Good News System,” focus on training entrepreneurs’ ways to turn the non-public service station and doubts into a new 7-figure business mindset.
In this exclusive interview, Delgado’s actions that boosted his business success:
Celinne Da Costa: Tell us about your trip.
Danelle Delgado: I grew up with a respectable mother who worked tirelessly for me and my sister, and a pro but alcoholic father. From DUI and vehicle injuries to domestic violence, it has created a harmful home environment.
The turmoil continued until my teenage years, when my parents divorced. My mother continued to raise me and my sister and I, and I went ahead that we were a wealthy, wealthy family. Family disorders have evolved as I had unrealistic expectations of my mother and unjust favoritism toward my sister.
To lean towards the presbound of performance, I turned to competitive gymnastics. Being an athlete has helped me install position systems in nothing less than one facet of my life.
Da Costa: What would you do to get out of this situation?
Skinny: My parents used the wealth of the family circle to send my sister to college, so I had to pay for my own education. I learned that alone.
First I built my goals according to my mother’s expectations. I followed the path she was looking for me to take, until I got a T: get a degree, build a career, get married and start a family.
While the finances forced me to drop out of nursing school, I gave up my dream of becoming an intermediate surgeon and instead followed my school studies. Other than that, having teenagers eventually the best friend led me to quit my career.
Soon my marriage broke down and I got into a fight with my mother, who was disappointed in my life choices. At this point, I was so ashamed of the way I had leveraged my talents to fulfill what others told me in the right way.
Da Costa: What have been the biggest non-easy conditions faced in your career?
Delgado: When I later started a sales career, so no one can tell me my value, I soon discovered that I was the worst seller in the world! Driven by the anger that I can’t offer my children a Christmas either, in addition to the distraction of my custody fight, I was pushed to improve. I took classes, sought mentors, and, after all, went from hardship to $10,000 months in just 60 days.
When I got up, my wise song was interrupted when I was diagnosed with cancer. Without fitness insurance and my career as a stop-back salesman, I learned that keeping hate and anger only made me sick.
I looked in the mirror and thought, “Enough! I’m going to tone alternate Americans to build life in their dreams and create an environment where they win despite what I myself included.” home for life that the most never knew. I went back to work, doing everything I can to build a business based on well-being and spread that goodness to others.
Da Costa: What has been your support for entrepreneurship?
Skinny: Because of the pain I’ve been through, I knew I can also help other Americans through education on how to succeed on him.
I took a solo cruise where I traced my vision. I tried to do live events, and as soon as we docked, I connected widely to announce them. I applied for loans to attract big names in the industry. I invested one more burden than I earned, but I created bonds that led me to generous sponsors.
They taught me to get out of debt. And the more I shared my story, the more Americans about me and my audience kept growing.
I started receiving invitations from high-level speakers, adding Grant Cardone. That’s when I knew that other Americans were going to my parties for me and not because of the wonderful Americans I’d brought.
This was my turning point: I began to design my systems with my own tactical wisdom to build, accept as true and win. I was on point with a giant audience, over and over again. I sold my seminars and retreats and made seven figures in 3 months.
When I focused on the positive, I learned that converting for external approval was not as satisfying as spreading the goodness I had and sharing it around the world.
Da Costa: What recommendation would you give to marketers to evolve?
Skinny: I had to be hit so others don’t have to.
I have achievements I’ve learned from everything I’ve been through:
Every day you get up, you have a new beginning. Write 10 things you appreciate being in abundance mode, in one position, and to notice the opportunities you offer.
If you make money, a minimal logical eating hatred will cause you pain and stop it. Take an inventory of the people who hurt you, write letters of forgiveness, and let them go. Do it daily until it’s your herbal intuition to say thank you.
Altactics learn. Listen to a podcast, Ted speaks or audiobok once you shower or brush your teeth. When your brain is full of inspiring content, space for evil.
When you feel challenged, take an inventory of tactics that this difficult time teaches you and how you may be able to help others in what you learn.
There’s no greater feeling to give. For example, call your favorite charity and tell them how much you’ll donate at the end of the year, and then approve and win. Occasionally, our best friend proves to be bigger for others, and if we make fun of being able to do it for them, we realize how to do it ourselves.
You’ll have 1000000 reasons to stop, but you only prefer anything to continue. Name it, write it down, put reminders: the names of your children, the charities you can serve, the dream in your midst … If the dream is in you, it’s meant to come true. People prefer your gifts: your skills.
Give everything you have, because how wonderful there is in you is the wise thing about the world.
Celinne Da Costa is a writer, speaker and storyteller for visionary leaders who take advantage of storytelling to get deeply into her audience